matrimonial service for tribals

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mail from Mr. Yogesh Sapate
(engineering student at Pune, origin from Nashik)

mail...... about matrimonial service to tribals

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hi,

am yogesh sapate . i got one idea that i wanted to share with u .

we should create blog like "shaadi.com or jeevansaathi.com" for our people . our main moto is to connect adivasi together . by making relation for peoples we can reach to their hearts directly. now its depends on people if they wanted their partner from own caste or other caste from adivasi comminuty . by doing so we can join two adivasi family (same caste or different caste) together by us n we can spread our thoughts , can achieve our target easily .

consider my case ,

i'll resister everyone from my relatives who wanted to get married (interested ones only) n if he/she got their partner by our blog their families would try to know more about us n that's what we want . because i have observed that the person who joins two family is very valuable person for both families.it would be very easy n simple to arrange marriges for our peoples .

we have career guidence programme to make their career then why we don't have this to find their life partner .???

that's what all i think . if u feel it is worth then think over it if not leave the case .

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@ mr. Yogesh, reply from Mr. pankaj >>>

Hi
am Pankaj Ghegad from Mumbai. The idea of shaadi.com or jeevansaathi.com" we should create the site for our peoples who can register over there for marriage. Ur idea is really good but the problem is in our rural areas the internet service is not that good. As the Ayush is arranging the career guidance programme same we should arrange the introduction session for the candidates who wants to marry and they can search their life partner over there.


Regards
Pankaj R. Ghegad
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@ mr. Yogesh, reply from Ms. Sonal

hi,
I have seen that many of renowned matrimonial sites have neglected most of the casts from the scheduled tribes including mine as our online strength is very small. So it is of no use to register under 'others' category on these sites. Other problem is that these sites charge 1500/- to 6000/- for paid memberships which is also very high amount for some of our S.T. bros. & sis. This is the problem scheduled tribes facing today on matrimonial websites.
In order to tackle with this problem I have undertaken the project of a matrimonial website for all 613 casts in scheduled tribes. I have invested a lot for this site i.e. for research & designing of this website. This site is at it's final stage. I am going to launch this site in next 10 days.
At present I am planning to offer free registration and free 3 months paid membership to each and every free registered member. Free paid membership will be for either 3 months or for viewing 30 contacts whichever ends earlier. After this 3 months only i will charge Rs. 300/- , 400/- & 500/- for extending paid membership by another 3 months, 6months & 9months respectively. Payment mode be cash on delivery because it is easiest and safest mode for our s.t. bros & sis. This charges are not for my income but for bearing hosting n domain charges.
I know, this project is not economically viable & it is difficult for me to bear the promotion expenses any more, So I am planning to promote it through forums n social networking sites like orkut. I want complete this project for our tribal people. When I will launch the website I will inform you.
Needs hearty support of your AYUSH family.
Thank You.
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@ mr. Yogesh, reply from Ms. Manisha

I am congratualting u to doing the activities like this.
and also support for that i u want any help from me.
Actually like these activities should be done,becoz for highly educated girls there is so much
problem to get the bride as high as there level.
if u get together all these ppl it is brialliant idea.
best of luck from me...
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@ mr. Yogesh, reply from Mr. Haresh

hi yogesh,
तुजी idea चांगली आहे मला खुप आवडली पण मला वाटत तू खुप वरच्या level ला विचार करतो, actully हे किती आणि कोणासाठी applicable आहे याचा विचार करायला हवा. मला वाटत आपण ground level ला विचार करावा. आपल्या समाजामधे किती जन्नाना उपयोग होऊ शकतो. आणि ज्हालाच तर जे खुप शिकलेत त्याना होऊ शकतो पण त्याना असा गोस्तिची कही गरज पडेल अस वाटत नाही. आपल्याला याच्या पेक्षा आपल्या समाजाला वर उचलण्यात अधिक विचार करण्याची गरज आहे. हे मज personal मत आहे.
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Regards,
Bhere Haresh Vilas,
IIT Kharagpur,

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@ ms. Sonal, reply from Mr. Haresh

Nice conception Ms. Sonal and Best luck from me and all Ayush Team......!

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@ all, reply from Mr. Yogesh

Hi, am yogesh sapate ,
Thanks for responding to my idea about matrimonial service to tribals. Am very well aware about ground level realities of our peoples.
I agree with pankaj that in our rural areas internet service is not available , even I’ve seen some areas where there is no electricity yet .
But the people like us can do their(Interested ones only) job. We can register them on our site. we should distribute this work between our relatives who r well known to internet .
I really appreciates with sonal’s work . I have just think about this but she has already started work on it .
Manisha is right . highly educated girls from our society got much problem to get the bride as high as their level in arrange marriages.
Haresh I want to tell u that not only educated peoples going to get benefits from this site but it would be also beneficial for the peoples who r not so educated.
I think least educated peoples going to have good help by such activity, because they can find their partner without any considerable efforts . suppose I registered my relatives (least educated) on our site n any other guy also did same n fortunately they matched with their partner preferences then they can have their life partner , don’t u think so . to develop our community is very important to connect our people together which is distributed in caste. We want adivasi unity n this is just one of the way to achieve our target . by making relations through us(ayush) ,we can unite our people n this is my personal opinion .

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@ all, reply from Mr. Pravin

Dear All,

Specially Yogesh, I M Pravin from Talasari, i really appreciate abt ur idea but its only useful for educated people. we think abt all person who is located at village ( Pada, Wadi ) area. for that we take seminar for village ( Pada, Wadi ) person to introduce the matrimonial service to tribals in our language (warli speech) to better understanding our idea & location is very simple we take seminar in Prarthamik Ashram Shala. ( Primary School ). If u remember our old people celebrate Barshi Utsav actually this is only for to introduce of the young generation. so we also use this way but as per our style & our time ...

Thanks & regards ,

Pravin Varade

Sr. Engineer QA

STI Sanoh India Limited

( Pune Plant )

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